Love Always Wins – Marriage Equality

Exactly one week ago today I got to witness a marriage that wouldn’t have been acknowledged in the United States several years ago. Brock and Corey’s wedding on June 21, 2015 was legally recognized in Illinois and Washington (where they live), since then the tides have even pushed forward to allow marriage equality in all 50 states. Marriage equality is a huge win for a community of people that haven’t had this granted in every state; however with the 5-4 ruling from the Supreme Court of the United States on June 26, 2015 it is equal. Personally, over the past five years, I’ve witnessed several things that I never thought would be imaginable. From attending ex-gay therapy, coming out, being comfortable knowing I couldn’t change, meeting amazing friends, living in the Castro and meeting people who forever change my life. As mentioned above, I was honored to be asked to attend
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It’s Never Goodbye, but See You Later

Ever since I made the decision to move back to Dallas, September 29, not a day passed by where factors of living in San Francisco will forever be a part of me. Since my return, October 13, (the day the Wright Amendment was lifted and I was on the first flight from SFO to LoveField) I have been counting several reasons to be grateful to be in a city that has taught me so much about myself in a six-month time frame. 1) If I didn’t leap at the opportunity I would have never known what life there would be like.  Very few people don’t take chances. I knew in my heart that if I didn’t take it now, that the odds of me going back would be slim to none. I am grateful of the opportunity and will definitely never forget living in San Francisco. However, being back in Texas I
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Friends Are Your Family

As several of you know, I’ve had the opportunity to recently go back home for 10 days. Along the way I saw several friends, family and others including the NAGAAA family that I love dearly. Having the Gay Softball World Series (GSWS) in my hometown was life changing. I was honored that my AlleyCats welcomed me back with open arms. Most importantly though I enjoyed spending time with my best friend, being a part of the GSWS, seeing my cousin’s wedding, being there for my nephew’s second birthday party, catching up on life over breakfast or drinks with people I consider mentors and spending priceless moments with my mom and Pepaw. With that said, on October 13 I have a one-way ticket back to Dallas. I’ve realized that often times dreams and other “desires” aren’t the same without the friends and family that support you along the way. In Dallas, being around the people I
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